Guilty? I am not talking about the ones who deserve your friendship, I am talking about the ones who don’t. If you’re not sure, ask a friend. Chances are a close friend will know what went on in the relationship and if the ex is worthy of your friendship. Hooking up with an ex after…
Hitting on someone might seem like an easy task for your best friend, for the cute guy in the group, or the girl who always has a boyfriend, however when it comes to securing the one you are truly fond of we can all use a little help. Batter up! I spent my life approaching…
You expect your favorite football team to do their best in today’s game. You expect a win. But what if your team performs badly because they spent the whole season complaining rather than practicing; keeping bad habits rather than killing them? In the spirit of the play-offs remember these key things before you kick-off that…
Women don’t have to be super suave to pick-up men, it’s endearing to be a little shy. Let’s review how to be a man magnet. How You Look. Smile, giggle, have fun. Men are intrigued by a woman who is having a great time. Your smile makes you approachable, which is a big step for…
Being suave is more natural for some people, but it takes persistence on your part to be a chick magnet. How You Look. Make sure your clothes are neat, i.e. ironed and clean. You shouldn’t look like you peeled the shirt from your floor and tossed it on. Physical Upkeep. Even if you don’t have a six-pack,…
Some of us are addicted to love. We crave the feeling of excitement in initial meetings and ongoing relationships. This addiction is about being adored and adoring another. This addiction can appear dominant in co-dependent people, but also affects many others silently. For people addicted to love, being alone is not a natural feeling and…
Making love last begins with understanding who we are as individuals. Healthy communication and shared responsibility in a relationship come from two healthy individuals. Good communication is a large part of healthy relationships. I don’t just mean talking, but numerous ways we communicate our love to someone. Touching them, being alone with them, or spending…
I overhear this and directly hear this all the time. Women and Men all over the country classify each other as a way to, I feel, ignore the real problem. We all have ups and downs in relationships. One thing I have learned, even about myself, is this: If you are not in a relationship,…
Ah, The DRT talk, AKA the Define the Relationship Talk. You are thinking about it and you want to know where you stand with your current dating partner: Are they seeing other people? Are you into them enough to be exclusive? Is it time to be with just one person? Most of the time this…
I was having a conversation with my parents the other day, and I took pride in knowing that I was a tom-boy that had problems following directions. I began to think about all my personality traits further and the habits I’ve formed when it comes to dating. Around the age of ten, I had three…
The Cynical Therapist 